blk-mq: Wake tasks entering queue on dying

When the queue is set to dying, wake up tasks that are waiting on frozen
queue so they realize it is dying and abandon their request.

Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>

Modified by me to add a code comment on the need for the wakeup.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>