tipc: disconnect socket directly after probe failure

If the TIPC connection timer expires in a probing state, a
self abort message is supposed to be generated and delivered
to the local socket. This is currently broken, and the abort
message is actually sent out to the peer node with invalid
addressing information. This will cause the link to enter
a constant retransmission state and eventually reset.
We fix this by removing the self-abort message creation and
tear down connection immediately instead.

Signed-off-by: Erik Hugne <erik.hugne@ericsson.com>
Reviewed-by: Ying Xue <ying.xue@windriver.com>
Reviewed-by: Jon Maloy <jon.maloy@ericsson.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>